How does one succeed in life?

Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What is the best way to end a relationship with someone who has future plans with you?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why have feminists not demanded that females be required to register with the selective service? Are female lives more precious than male lives?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why did Cartman love Heidi purely with heart, her being the first one he ever did, but then one day Butters tells him that all women are manipulative and then he began to believe that she was a bad person and pretended to be a victim?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Did sharing a wife turn out okay?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why isn't bestiality illegal in most states? If children can't consent, then animals DEFINITELY can't consent. Why is being a pedophile a crime but zoophilia is not?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What’s a historical event you wish more people talked about?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

14,000-year-old mummified ‘puppies’ weren’t dogs at all, new research shows - CNN

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is one fantasy you have never told anyone about but really want to do?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Trump is going to target known criminals in the country illegally for deportation. The Democrats have vowed to fight him every step of the way. Don't they understand this is one of the issues that cost them the white house, the house and senate?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.